Again, following on from Gemini, Cancer also HATES and LOATHES change in a way that only their Taurus friends can really understand. Cancer loves the past, its family, where it came from, where it grew up. Cancer revels in memories of the past, in the emotions it felt and will find a real sense of self sitting looking at old photos and crying. Cancerians cry, they are emotional, hyper sensitive, caring, maternal or paternal and nurturing. Cancer thrives when it can care for people whether that is in a nursery or as a PA, if they are looking after people then they feel NEEDED and that is what Cancer really loves. Just as Aries is a ME FIRST, Cancer is another Cardinal sign but this time, WE first… FAMILY FIRST. Cancer fights to keep the family together with the same determination that an Aries seeks to go it alone. Home and family is everything to the Cancer. Their friends are important too but Cancer is ruled by the moon and just like the moon they are constantly changing and their moods sometimes make them want to hide from the world. Be gentle with your Cancer pals and they will peep their heads out of their shells and make you laugh with their loony sense of humour.